Throughout this series, we’ve explored the internal and external forces that drive us to take meaningful action. But there’s one crucial piece left to address: Clarity.
Without clarity, even the strongest drive or external support will only take us so far. True clarity goes beyond simply understanding what you do—it’s about understanding who you are being in every moment.
Why Clarity Matters
Clarity of being is the cornerstone of all purposeful action. It aligns your thoughts, emotions, and actions with your authentic self, guiding how you show up in every area of life.
I had a transformative experience with Steve Hardison’s The Ultimate Coach that helped me understand clarity on a deeper level. Through powerful questions, Steve ignited profound self-reflection:
- Who would I need to BE to be a more loving person?
- Who would I need to BE to be a more effective parent?
- Who would I need to BE to create a remarkable level of confidence?
- Who would I need to BE to fully love myself and my life?
- Who would I need to BE to live the most extraordinary life I can live?
These questions go beyond surface-level contemplation and encourage us to dig into the essence of our being. The answers reveal the profound connection between who we are and the life we live.
Clarity in Leadership
Let’s now consider clarity in the context of leadership.
- Who would I need to BE to be a more effective leader?
This question demands that we explore our core values—values like authenticity, empathy, respect, accountability, and vision. When we focus on who we need to be, our actions naturally align with these values, creating a profound, lasting impact in our leadership roles.
Steps to Gain Clarity
- Reflect Deeply
Take 10 minutes today to reflect on the question:
Who would I need to BE to become the person I aspire to be in my life and work?
Write down your thoughts and notice which ones resonate the most with you. - Identify Core Values
From your reflections, identify at least three core values that define your ideal self. Ask yourself:
How do these values align with my current actions? - Create a Plan
Choose one actionable step to embody these values in the coming week. It could involve adjusting your daily routine, how you interact with others, or taking on a specific challenge that stretches your growth.
Taking the Next Step
Clarity isn’t something you simply achieve once and forget about—it’s an ongoing journey of alignment. If you’re ready to dive deeper and discover how clarity can transform your life and work, I’d love to connect. Reply to this blog, and we’ll set up a time to discuss how you can unlock your full potential.
Here’s to becoming the best version of yourself—living and leading with clarity, purpose, and passion!
Amit Chawla